Lisa writes, “Seven years ago my boyfriend and his wife moved to Connecticut from Montana to try and see if there marriage could work because in Montana he was always cheating. We met six month after they had been in Connecticut. We had been talking for about a year when someone let his wife know that we were seeing each other. We stopped for a while, like three months, then she found out that he was still seeing me and three other women. They separated for a while and he moved in with me. He stated he wanted to start a new relationship with me but his wife would not give up. He would not go back. Now he has simply taken off to be with his wife without any warning at all. I am now devastated and wonder if I have lost my man. Please help.”
I cannot say that the current game is necessarily against you because for all we know he is simply trying to pacify his ex wife to divorce him so that he can be with you but because that is not what he told you I think that for some reason he wants to make up with her.
I would like you so much to use this opportunity to forget about him and start a new life in which you can date a simple, honest, single guy and just have an ordinary relationship rather than be part of a big drama.